what gives us the zsa zsa zsu!!
Sometimes I think as to what it takes to make a relationship work?
What is a relationship, without the "zsa zsa zsu"!!?
One could probably be in a comfortable relationship with his/her best friend,having a good time.. hanging out..sharing feelings and thoughts.. but without the sex part, will it give you butterflies in the stomach??
Perhaps not.
So then when it comes to say "I do".. wats more important..? sex or friendship?
bckgrnd -- nil
/me -
What is a relationship, without the "zsa zsa zsu"!!?
One could probably be in a comfortable relationship with his/her best friend,having a good time.. hanging out..sharing feelings and thoughts.. but without the sex part, will it give you butterflies in the stomach??
Perhaps not.
So then when it comes to say "I do".. wats more important..? sex or friendship?
bckgrnd -- nil
/me -
4 Comments:
What is the question to which I am answering "I do/want"?
Will you like to have sex with me?
Will you like to be my friend?
Will you like to be my friend and have great sex with me?
Three separate questions to be evaluated separately.
The last two can be equally good relationships. All three can be equally good experiences.
And experiences matter a little bit more for personal growth than relationships. Relationships are a subset of experiences.
Shouldn't say "yes" to any without really feeling "yes". And each can then turn out to be super.
In a nutshell, I'll say "I do" when I feel "I do" but I will respond to the correct question.
I wouldn't say "I do" if friendship comes with sex when I don't want the friendship. Or sex comes with friendship when I don't want the sex. Or any other similar formulation of the prkoblem.
I would not say yes to sex because I want the friendship or vice-versa.
Disclaimer: In Sri Sri's terminology, in the many TV channels of the mind, all of the above content are streamed in one of the less fundamental ways of thinking (or TV channel). :)
Cheers, sweetie-pie :)
i pity them!! :)
btw, i cudnt have agreed more with your comment :)
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